What Is
Pleasure

Space?

We are all entitled to pleasure, but how do we better communicate what really makes us tick in the bedroom and beyond? It starts by getting to know ourselves a little better. With expert-backed methodology, The Pleasure Space invites you to discover your Pleasure Archetype and Muse.

What is
your
pleasure
archetype?

What is
your
pleasure
archetype?

Which Pleasure Archetype are you?

The Artist

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A natural explorer, you love to be challenged and be creative. For you, pleasure is synonymous with the freedom to be yourself. You’re learning to let go of who society told you that you ‘should’ be and simply enjoy being who you are. Practice pleasure through creative expressions like art, novels or style.

The Advocate

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Naturally creative and open-minded. The only constant is that, for you, pleasure is about generosity. Acts of service are where it’s at. You love creating intentional experiences for others. Nothing is more pleasurable for you than hosting a dinner for your friends or curating a personalised playlist for your lover(s).

The Caregiver

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Physical affection is your language. For you, nothing brings you emotional and physical satisfaction quite like showing care in your relationships. You’re learning to be present and connected to your own body. Dancing, yoga and receiving sensual massages are sure-fire ways to light you up.

The Curator

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You’re learning to put yourself and your pleasure first. This journey is about taking ownership over your desires without shame or guilt. Maximising your pleasure means cultivating courage. This could look like wearing clothes that make you feel amazing, enjoying food you love and discovering new ways to own your sexuality.

The Mentor

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Self-aware and a natural caretaker, you gravitate towards guiding others in experiencing pleasure. You’re able to take the lead because you understand what brings you satisfaction. Tap into this superpower through acts of service, centred around indulgence: prepare a decadent meal for your lover(s) or plan an intimate date night for you and your partner.


The Empath

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Curious and emotionally intelligent, you’re naturally tuned in to the feelings and needs of those around you. Physical and emotional satisfaction comes most naturally when it’s shared with others. Dial up your pleasure by curating intentional experiences for connection like dinner parties or time away with your friends or partner(s).

The Protagonist

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Your sense of pleasure is grounded in passion and intensity, but it’s when your desires and actions align that you really sharpen your senses. Be it organising and experiencing a weekend away, practicing your favourite self-care routine or blasting your loved albums. For you, pleasure comes from knowing what you want and going after it.

The Tutor

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You love a challenge. Naturally curious and generous, you love guiding and leading your partners in their pursuit of pleasure. Maximise and express your pleasure archetype by dreaming up exciting and unexpected dates for your lover(s) or trying out new hobbies together that let your natural leadership qualities shine.

The Virtuoso

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You experience pleasure in scenarios fuelled by energy and enthusiasm and that encourage you to learn more about yourself and explore what makes you tick. Maximising pleasure is all about embracing individuality. Throwing yourself into adventures, undertaking new hobbies, and trying the unfamiliar is where it’s at.

The Concierge

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You get off by getting others off. A natural caretaker, you derive pleasure from showing appreciation to your partner(s). For you, pleasure is centered around moments of connection and care – whether it’s making dinner for a friend or lover, running a bath for your partner or giving them a massage.

The Maverick

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You’re spontaneous, impulsive and confident. You love pushing boundaries, exploring new forms of pleasure and learning more about yourself. For you, a pleasurable life is about adventure, autonomy and thrill-seeking. Enhance pleasure by doing things like bucket-list style holidays or trying a new toy.

The Hedonist

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For you, satisfaction is synonymous with sensuality – you love to feel connected to your body. You’re tapped in to your primal pleasure points. Pleasure flows freely when you can let go of responsibility and reason. Cultivate this through your physical senses: dancing, dressing in fabrics and colours that feel good.

The Escapist

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For you, the pursuit of pleasure is a playground for experimentation and escape. When you find it, you feel free. Your pleasure is most potent when you feel like you can release control and responsibility to indulge in a bit of healthy hedonism like physical acts of pleasure, a night of dancing or satisfying your culinary cravings.

The Poet

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You’re emotional, loyal and loving. With that comes a need to feel secure and seen in your relationships before you can truly surrender to pleasure. You crave meaning and tend to focus on the storytelling aspects of pleasure. For you, pleasure isn't centred around thrill chasing, it's about deep and stimulating conversations.

The Lover

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For you, a pleasurable life is all about intensity and passion. Equally as content to receive pleasure as you are to give it, you approach pleasure with your whole self: mind and body as one. Spark this unique pleasure profile by taking a hot shower with your partner, co-creating a meal or slow dancing in the living room to a romantic song.

The Director

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You’re confident and clear about what you want – and you own it. For you, pleasure is a directly intertwined with stress relief and forms a key part of your self-care routine. Maximise your physical and emotional pleasure by cultivating moments that allow you to connect with yourself - runs, journaling or lingering over your skincare routine.

Meet the Muses

Lucy as

The Tutor

I naturally find myself wanting to share what I've learned in my experiences of sex, pleasure and dating with others. I even wrote an award-winning play about my experience as a queer woman in an online world. Nowadays, I also divulge juicy, NSFW stories about my relationships — whether steamy encounters or awkward first dates — on my Sunroom, where I will also review (and improve) your dating profile on request. After all, we could all benefit from a little tutoring from time to time.

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Kyla as

The Virtuoso

I seek adventure and always manage to stumble across pleasure, I have a classic case of wanderlust that empowers me to savour every moment. I tend to live loudly and think that everyone should become their own muse. I find myself flirting with my more pleasure-driven desires on Sunroom and you’ll find me posting spicy content and curating more custom experiences there.

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Elle as

The Protagonist

Pleasure for me is pure self-expression. I thrive when I feel authentically connected and present with my environment. I embrace living in my body so you’ll often find me singing and dancing as a way to rejuvenate and get in touch with my inner self. Through Sunroom I’m able to share my musings on pleasure and life while authentically exploring my sensuality through movement and nudity.

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Abby as

The Director

I preach divinity by living it! I gravitate towards displaying the whole package — my vulnerable moments, my growth, motherhood and my wins. I promote self-connection through spirituality and you’ll find me consulting the cards and sharing affirmations alongside my spicy stories and stunning selfies. I use Sunroom to freely display the steamier side of my divine groove.

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Sattera as

The Advocate

I’m always looking out for new ways to experience pleasure, and have started an online community to empower other people with fuller busts. I’m obsessed with helping find bras that are comfortable and confidence-boosting because while pleasure may sometimes include a bit of play — it shouldn’t include an ill-fitting bra. My Sunroom is a haven where I review sex toys, post lingerie reviews without having to fear censorship due to my cleavage, and celebrate all sides of myself.

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Ellie as

The Hedonist

I am all about sharing — everything. Pleasure should exist without shame and that is why I get vulva owners around the world to spread their legs and spread the word that uniqueness is beautiful and everyone should be comfortable in their skin. I use Sunroom to as a space to share my work, there's never been a space on the internet that felt sacred enough for nudity geared towards the female gaze. One of my most successful series is "titty talk" where I interview everday women around the relationship they have with their breasts.

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Eleanor as

The Lover

I am a big lover of the entire pleasure spectrum and you’ll find me talking about sex a lot. Pleasure is so multifaceted, so there are endless conversation topics — tongue tactics, how to take nudes, orgasm education, aftercare and solo pleasure to name a few. As a sex educator, I celebrate the curious and use Sunroom for Intimate Q&As and sharing extra spicy content that I can’t post anywhere else.

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Lee as

The Poet

Pleasure for me is creating and storytelling without limitation. I love depth and being able to connect with people on my terms. My mind and body are intertwined and I no longer feel like I have to dim my sexuality to be a writer. I use my Sunroom as an extra close friends list where I share my stories and explore the true, unfiltered me.

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Bella as

The Artist

I choose pleasure by rejecting shame and working to free myself and others from the pressure placed on fem bodies. We’re not a collection of body parts — we’re entire, unique people and that’s what I’m celebrating. On my sunroom, I share unseen photos and videos, as well as providing a safe space for you to ask me advice, and to have unfiltered chats about intimacy and body insecurities.

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Michelle as

The Curator

I am a cancer moon which means I’m very intuitive when it comes to needs. I indulge in pleasure by experimenting with decadence and celebrating how my body connects with the world around me. My Sunroom is an outlet that lets me explore the art of the tease as well as the rise and fall of heavy emotion, and a good place to post all the content that got me shadowbanned.

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Julia as

The Empath

I embody the soft and the sensual. I find pleasure in feeling good about my body and encouraging others to embrace their own in a community that makes me feel supported. I am naturally drawn towards open conversations and embracing vulnerability because everything is more pleasurable when you know yourself. As well as these big conversations, you’ll find my Sunroom filled with juicy sex stories, navigating relationships and insatiable dating deets.

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Christina as

The Maverick

I am drawn towards pleasure and sexual expression. This has resulted in me building an empowerment-fuelled community called Shadowbanned where we challenge online censorship & celebrate sensuality instead of shame it. My Sunroom is a creative outlet where I divulge kink-filled conversations, creatively express my desires and fill you in on the spicy details of my unconventional dating life.

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Autumn as

The Concierge

I’m using my own queerness and journey of self-discovery to help others feel more comfortable within their own stories. I relish in the soft strength of different types of love and celebrate the expansion of pleasure (in all its delectable forms). My Sunroom is built on unapologetic oversharing about health, body, polyamory, sex, and a whole lot more salacious displays.

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Micayla as

The Escapist

Creativity is my pleasure playground. I feel divine fulfilment when I’m spiritually aligned and exploring the connection between myself and my body. I am both the art and the artist and I’ve designed my Sunroom to cater to the curious as an exclusive BTS pass to the strip club, my day-to-day life, and the inner workings of my mind.

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Lucy as

The Mentor

I gravitate towards unfiltered pleasure having spent a lot of time exploring sex-positive online communities & IRL events as well as online dating. I’m one of the co-founders of Sunroom and I use my own profile to collect feedback and show you the BTS of how we build it! It doesn’t stop there though, you’ll find me dropping the occasional saucy pic for my subscribers and providing more in-depth (and definitely unfiltered) educational content.

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Tallulah as

The Caregiver

I’m drawn to affection, physical closeness and touch. I tend to find pleasure through experimentation — the act of creation is something that attracts me and I’m drawn to exhibiting and becoming the artist. I’m passionate about my community and see art as an outlet for activism and storytelling. My Sunroom is built around developing connections, exploring boundaries and posting spicy content that’s not allowed elsewhere.

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In Good Hands

Selina Nguyen (she/they) is a certified Relationship and Sex Therapist with years of experience supporting individuals and relationships. Passionate about sex education and literacy, Selina also provides free sex and relationships education @sexwith_sel

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